Sermon 10/27 Real Relationships

Scripture Lesson: Matthew 4:17-25
Pastor: Rev. Kim P. Wells

I am captivated by stories of people who are forced into isolation like in the movie
Cast Away, when Chuck Noland played by Tom Hanks spends four years on a
deserted tropical island with no human contact. Or The Martian, where Mark
Watney played by Matt Damon is left for dead on Mars and has to try to figure out
how to survive alone. These stories grab my attention because they challenge the
fundamental character of the human being: We are social creatures. We are
relational. We are not created as isolationist do-it-yourself loners. We are meant to
live together in families, friendships, clans, tribes, and societies.

This is part of what makes the punishment of solitary confinement in the prison
system so heinous. It is not only cruel and unusual. It is inhumane. It is
unnatural. It is a denial of the humanity of the prisoner.

We need to be together to live, to thrive, and to survive. This is the nature of our
species. While the nature of our social arrangements may vary greatly, we are
intended to live in relationship with others.

So, religion, as part of how we express our social nature, must necessarily deal
with the social arrangements of human beings. We see that in a prominent way in
the ministry and teachings of Jesus. This morning we listened to a story of Jesus
beginning his ministry. Jesus is inviting people to a new path and immediately we
see the communal nature of this path. It was common for teachers to teach and for
students to come to them. But in this story, we see Jesus going out, among the
people, taking his teaching to them; inviting them to follow. Already we are seeing
something new.

It was also customary for teachers to maintain their authority and superiority, even
if done with humility. Leaders stay at the top where it is often lonely. But in many
stories about Jesus, we see a different kind of relationship between Jesus and his
followers. He gives his followers full authority to do everything he does. He calls
them not servants but friends. Equals. He has faith in their power to do greater
things than he has done. This is a different kind of leadership. Jesus is not keeping
the power at the top.

We also see that Jesus reaches out to all kinds of people, not just the elite or those
with glowing reputations or those who have shown some kind of gift or promise
that will benefit the movement. No. With Jesus, everyone is welcome and
included in the reality of God. Women, men, rich, Roman, sick, poor, pariah, Jesus
finds people where they are. And he demonstrates compassion and love through
healing, sharing food, forgiving. And having fun. Everyone a beloved child of
God no matter the circumstances.

Jesus can teach, Love your enemy, because he does it and he welcomes even those
considered enemy into the community. He shows love to a Roman solider, to
Samaritans, and to Zaccheaus, a hated, corrupt tax collector. When the disciples
and his closest friends don’t trust, when they disobey, when they betray, Jesus still
loves them. He forgives them. To those who crucify him, we are told of Jesus
offering mercy. Jesus doesn’t just say it, he does it. He embodies God’s reality.
All beloved. All forgiven. All welcome in the community.

Jesus is not just telling stories about a fantasy world. He is not simply offering
principles and ideals. Or a set of rules or an abstract formula. From the beginning
we are told of Jesus forming relationships that embody the way of God. Jesus
offers lived experience in relationships to demonstrate the reality of God. He
models for the people around him the commonwealth of God; beloved community.
And the people around Jesus learn to practice this new kind of community.

Those who knew Jesus experienced first hand this new kind of community that was characterized by mutuality, equality, accountability, forgiveness, and joy. Yes,
Jesus’ followers were known for partying and enjoying themselves. They felt what
it was like to be part of an alternative dynamic to the stratified oppression of the
society around them. And it was life giving. It was freeing. It was like cool fresh
air on a beastly hot day. It was so compelling – even just to witness, to catch a
glimpse, to see an outline of what could be – that people were attracted to the
community around Jesus. And they were willing to be part of this experiment
creating the realm of God with others. They were willing to let go of attitudes that
did not fit the new model. They were willing to turn their lives upside down to be
part of this new construct of social relationships and community. This non
hierarchical, egalitarian way of compassion was exciting and enlivening.

Jesus does not follow God by himself in isolation because the way of God is a way
of relationship. Yes, it is important to cultivate a relationship with God, Spirit, and
self through silence and spiritual disciplines. But the rubber hits the road in
relationships with other people. How we are with others? Others who are flawed
and imperfect like we are? That’s where we truly express our faith, our deepest
beliefs, our most cherished values. In relationships with others – in society, in the
economy, in the environment, in our work settings, our social lives, our
neighborhoods, our families. All of these different contexts provide us with
opportunities to live into the kingdom of God, the realm of the Divine, the
commonwealth of Love.

Of course we know that there have always been groups wanting to create
community and to inculcate a sense of belonging. Cults, sects, gangs, and other
groups throughout history have sought to attract people often coalescing and
finding meaning and belonging around hatred. Around taking advantage of others.
Around a message of superiority. There has always been this strain in human
social constructs.

What Jesus demonstrates is community, belonging, and meaning, around grace.
Around compassion. Around forgiveness and acceptance. Around universal,
unconditional love. The experience was so compelling, that, as we heard this morning, fishers, stable people with jobs, families, businesses, providing food,
working people, leave everything behind to be with Jesus. To be part of the new
community. To embody the new reality. They accept this intrusive disruption and
follow because what they find is so life giving.

The integrity, the wholeness, the honesty attracted people. Jesus was about real
relationships. It wasn’t like trying to teach someone to knit without actually
having needles and yarn at hand. It was lived experience. The embodiment of
ideals and values and teachings. It wasn’t just wishful thinking and good
intentions.

Friends, this is what the world needs today. It needs models of authentic, honest
community where people actually live what they say they believe. And they make
mistakes. And seek to repair broken relationships and broken trust through honest
engagement. We have a government that will send troops to protect oil but not to
protect people. We have companies that are more concerned with profits than
people let alone the poisoning of the Earth. We live in a culture that may be further
from realm of God than the Roman Empire was in Jesus’ day. Which is why the
church may be more important than ever. The church. A seed. Growing a
different reality. Creating a different kind of community. Bearing an unfamiliar
fruit in this context. The church is needed to give people a different kind of
experience of social relationship. We are needed to embody a different construct
of human community. The way of Jesus is not the way of self serving Western
culture, corporate capitalism, or corrupt governance. In the way of Jesus, the
worth of a poor person can never be less than the worth of a wealthy person. There
are no expendables. In the way of Jesus, the value of the life of a white person can
never be greater than the value of the life of a person of color. This simply cannot
be in the commonwealth of God. A man cannot be of greater value than a woman.
That is not the way of Jesus. We are needed to show the world the reality of God
among us just as Jesus did in his day. Maybe the church is in decline in our society
because the church looks more like US culture than like the alternative community
formed by Jesus. But the Jesus community is desperately needed. And the more
perilous the times, the greater the need for this witness. May we create community
that reflects the realm of God here in our midst and in the world beyond. Amen.

A reasonable effort has been made to appropriately cite materials referenced in this sermon. For
additional information, please contact Lakewood United Church of Christ.

Stay for James Dailey!

Floridians for Alternatives to the Death Penalty
STAY for James Dailey!
Statement of Attorney for James Dailey in response to the U.S. District Court for the Middle District of Florida’s Grant of a Stay of Execution until December 30, 2019:

“We are grateful that the U.S. District Court for the Middle District has granted a stay to allow Mr. Dailey’s newly appointed federal counsel time to present his new and substantial claims of innocence, so that they may finally be heard on the merits. We urge the Attorney General and Governor DeSantis not to appeal or otherwise oppose this limited stay in order to allow Mr. Dailey’s case to proceed under the timeline directed by the Court.”
— Carol Wright, Chief Attorney, Capital Habeas Unit, Middle District of Florida
October 23, 2019
The court’s order can be viewed here: https://tinyurl.com/y4uwhssa


Your help is needed for the work to be done. Please support Florida Death Penalty abolition action campaigns to end the use of the Death Penalty. 
Please post and share this message widely.

Sent by:
Mark Elliott
Executive Director
Floridians for Alternatives to the Death Penalty
www.fadp.org
FADP is a non-profit and non-partisan statewide Florida organization of individuals and groups united to abolish the Death Penalty in Florida.

please donate here:https://www.fadp.org/donate/

Weekly Update 10/30

This Sunday:  All Saints Sunday November 3 is an opportunity to name all those who have been saints in our lives. We celebrate those who inspire our faith. Don’t forget daylight saving time.

Please bring your Harvest Forms to church this Sunday!


Communion Sunday: The first Sunday of the month is a Communion Sunday.  That means the communion offering will be received.  This offering is used to help people in the church and the community with basic needs such as rent and utility assistance, bus passes, prescriptions, etc.  There has been heavy need for these funds in recent weeks.  Please consider how you can help the community through this offering.


The Big Event Save the date for the Big Event, Sunday November 10th. The theme will be What Seeds are You Planting?  This will be a wonderful celebration of the congregation and ministry of LUCC. Join in fellowship and refreshments following the service. Don’t miss it!


Pinellas Coalition for Immigration Justice: Thanks to the ongoing work of organizations like the Pinellas Coalition for Immigration Justice, long-time protestors at the Homestead Migrant Child/Youth Detention Facility, and elected representatives like Charlie Crist who have stood for compassionate, just, accountable immigration policies, the Trump administration announced today that the Homestead facility will be closed by Nov. 30.  Caliburn International (donor to Sen. Scott) has been charging taxpayers $720,000/day for a  now-empty facility. Special thanks to the LUCC postcard-writers Sunday, who asked our elected Congressional representatives not to re-open Homestead – and to monitor that these children receive the care and education required by law for any children.  You might just have been the “tipping point” for change.  Thank you, Lakewood!   – Sue Sherwood


Immigration Justice: This Sunday there will be a post card writing table set up before and after worship to (1) acknowledge our gratitude for the permanent closing of the Homestead Migrant Youth Detention Facility and (2) ask that for-profit detention centers all be closed.


Name Tags: For those who requested name tags on Oct. 13th your name tags are now ready. Name tags are in the long red basket near the entrance of sanctuary, usher name tags are green basket right next to the red basket. If you are in need of a name tag, please speak with Wally LeBlanc


Maximo Uniforms: Mrs. Moses and Ms Jones, administrators from Maximo Elementary were at church last Sunday to receive the uniforms being donated to help the homeless students at the school. Many thanks to all who donated!


Education ministry Team: There will be a meeting on Tuesday November 5th at 9 A.M.


Letter Writing: A letter writing station is being set up at church. Look for opportunities to share your faith perspective on immigration, the environment, and gun safety with elected officials.


Lakewood Day Trippers: We will be visiting Marjorie Kinnan Rawlings Historic State Park. We will meet at the church at 9:30 AM, November 7th. Then we will carpool to 18700 S County Road 325, Cross Creek, FL. 32640. The park admission is $3.00 per vehicle. After our guided tour we will eat at the Yearling. There will be . a sign up sheet in the Sanctuary. For more details contact Patti Cooksey or Carol Shores.


A Fair Food Congregation? The Coalition of Immokalee Workers and the Fair Food Program have set up a new initiative inviting churches to become a Fair Food Congregation.  Fair Food Congregations pledge to share information about farmworker exploitation and the how the Fair Food Program is working to end these abuses.  They also commit to promoting and participating in farmworker led campaigns such at the Wendy’s Boycott, marches, demonstrations, letter-writing, etc.  And they offer ongoing financial support to the Fair Food Program.  This support involves 3-5 people in the congregation giving a monthly financial donation of their choice to support the work of the Fair Food Program.  

The advisors discussed LUCC making this commitment to become a Fair Food Congregation.  The church is already doing parts one and two.  One person has come forward to be a financial sustainer.  With two or more additional people who will make a monthly ongoing financial commitment to the Fair Food Program, LUCC can take the pledge and become a Fair Food Congregation.  Please consider if you would like to become a financial sustainer giving the amount of your choice to the Fair Food Program each month.  Please speak with Rev. Wells or an advisor if you would like to make this commitment.  Many thanks. Si se puede!


 Ben Prestage Concert (Tennessee, Blues/Roots Music) : Join us to see Ben Prestage perform and share his talent! Ben has participated in the International Blues Challenge (the world’s largest gathering of Blues musicians) and within three consecutive years he took 4th, 3rd, and 2nd place. He is also the only two-time recipient of the Lyon/Pitchford Award for “Best Diddley-Bow Player.” Ben’s interesting approach to instrumentation (fingerstyle guitar, harmonica, banjo, lap-steel, fiddle, resonator guitar, foot-drums), vocals, and his award-winning original songwriting (recipient of “The Most Unique Performer” at “The Song- Writers’ Showcase of America”) have earned him invitations to perform across North America, Europe, and as far as North Africa. All awards aside, he has proven himself, through his live performances, to be the future of American Blues, Roots Music, Americana and is one of today’s most talented outsiders. The concert begins at 7:00 p.m. on November 15th. Suggested donation of $20. All proceeds go to the artist. Please feel free to contact the church with any questions! lakewooducc@gmail.com or call at 727-867-7961.


Operation Attack: Operation Attack is very much in need of clothes for men, boys, and girls as well as diapers and peanut butter and canned fruit. Donations may be placed in the shopping cart in the entryway to the sanctuary. Operation Attack is an ecumenical effort serving families with children located a Lakeview Presbyterian Church, 1310 22nd. Ave. S., St. Petersburg. LUCC was a founding member of Operation Attack in the 1960’s!


Remember to Vote: Tuesday November 5th is election day!


Hearing Augmentation: Devices are available from the usher in the sanctuary during worship.


October Birthdays: Malcom Wells 10/8, Janet Blair 10/19, Denise Williams 10/28, Olivia Gibson 10/29, and Victoria Long 10/19. Someone missing? Contact the church office with birthday information.


Circle of Concern: Tony Rogers, David Rowland, Sherry Santana, Jen DeGroot, Carolyn Moore, Ann Quinn, Maggie Brizendine, and Ann Rogers.


Recent Posts:


Weekly Update: If you are involved with an activity or event that you would like to share with the LUCC family, please send the information to the church office by Tuesday since the Update usually is sent out on Wednesday.

Florida Conference of the United Church of Christ

Florida Conference of the United Church of Christ 2019 Annual Gathering and Meeting– Orlando, Florida October 10 – 12, 2019 Observations by Claire Stiles

Pastor Kim Wells and Claire Stiles attended the Annual Gathering of the Florida UCC on Friday and Saturday, October 11 – 12 in Orlando, Florida.  Besides co-presenting a workshop on Becoming a Creation Justice Church: The Journey, we attended business, affinity group, and Town Hall meetings as well as inspiring presentations on Racial Justice and Equality and the Coalition of Immokalee Workers and Fair Food Alliance.  The conference ended on Saturday morning with a heartfelt “vespers” style worship service where a small group of us sang “Here I am Lord” and “Rejoice!” in four-part harmony under the direction of Kevin Harris.

The theme of this year’s gathering was “What Wondrous Love” from the book of Acts in the Bible.  The scripture tells of many wonders and signs which arose when around a common table, shared prayers, learning about the Way of Jesus, and community building, people walked in covenant with one another.  As we confront the sometimes overwhelming challenges of the 21st century, we were and are asked to embrace this wondrous love and continue to build the beloved community together.  Finding and following our own discipleship as we love and support each other was a powerful message for all of us.

Sharing of personal stories of suffering, healing, and redemption both publically and in one-on-one conversations by a number of participants and leaders made this gathering particularly memorable and touched many hearts.  I came away feeling humbled and uplifted by the UCC leadership, values, and spirit.  Many caring, committed, and compassionate people are working hard in Florida to uphold the true mission of Christianity and of the Church.  I am grateful to be a part of this tradition.