
Last year at Christmas time I was in the throes of being treated forbreast cancer. I had two surgeries in December.
There was a a lot of drama about how we were going to celebrate Christmas as a family. I did not want to host, for obvious reasons. Our daughter was in the process of moving from Naples to St. Pete. She did not want to host. So we went to our son Malcolm and fiancé Samantha’s house in Sarasota.
Some weeks before the holiday, I let everyone know that I was not getting any Christmas gifts for anyone except for the two grandsons, aged 3 and 5 at the time. This ended up giving some others permission not to give gifts. So, instead of the usual piles of presents under the tree, there were a few gifts. We had a full day of fun, sitting around the fire, chasing the children in the yard, eating lots of different foods, listening to music, spending time together. it was very festive. Really, one of the best Christmas’s ever!
As this Christmas rolls around, one of the kids asked me, are we doing gifts again this year or not? I was told it was more fun last year without all the presents. So, I said, it’s up to you. I’ll just do gifts for the kids again. The rest can do as you wish.
This was a little controversial at first, but it is catching on. Less stress. More fun. Less financial burden in tight times.
“You have scattered the proud in their conceit,
you have deposed the mighty from their thrones
and raised the lowly to high places.
You have filled the hungry with good things,
while you have sent the rich away empty.
These are the drastic sweeping changes promised at Christmas. It isn’t going to happen if we keep doing everything the same way all the time. Why not start with with making a change in how you celebrate this glorious holy day of rebellion! We don’t have to always to it the same way.
Prayer: This season is a celebration of newness. A new baby! A new dream for the world! Maybe we can honor this newness by starting some new traditions for the holiday season. Amen.
This devotion was prepared by Rev. Kim P. Wells, pastor of Lakewood United Church of Christ in St. Petersburg, FL.



