Sermon Text 6.15.25 “A Trinity for Father’s Day”

LAKEWOOD UNITED CHURCH OF CHRIST

2601 54th Avenue South  St. Petersburg, FL  33712 on the Gulf of Mexico

On land originally inhabited by the Tocabaga

727-867-7961

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lakewooducc@gmail.com

Date: June 15, 2025 

Scripture Lesson:  Proverbs 31:10-31

Sermon: A Trinity for Father’s Day

Pastor: Rev. Kim P. Wells

Date: June 15, 2025

Scripture Lesson: Proverbs 31:10-31

Sermon: A Trinity for Father’s Day

Pastor: Rev. Kim P. Wells

This scripture lesson from Proverbs has always disturbed me.  It reads like a want ad for a bride in the late 1800’s or early 1900’s when men sought brides through agencies in Eastern Europe or Asia.  

Looking for a wife who is:  

Strong

Loving

Trustworthy

Good

Works hard from sun up into the night

Manages property

Sews and weaves

Makes clothes, quilts and bedding

Helps the hungry and homeless

Is wise and kind 

Takes care of husband and children

Maintains a good reputation in the community

I’d like a wife like that!  Can we imagine an ad for a husband that is as comprehensive?  Business skills.  Childrearing skills.  Household management skills.  Generous, compassionate temperament.  Community involvement.  Help for the needy.  

We can hardly imagine a job description for a husband like that!

Now before we move on, I want to mention several things.  The book of Proverbs was written with young men on the verge of marriage and adulthood in mind.  [The New Interpreter’s Bible Commentary, vol. 3, p. 941.]. So, this description of a woman of virtue was meant to be in high praise of women.  It was meant to extol the many facets of the assets of women beyond physical beauty and sex appeal.  So, for its time, this description of a virtuous woman really was meant to expand the appreciation of women.  

And yet, we know the problems with these elevated expectations.  Women are now welcome in the work force, though their pay is not commensurate with men.  But as it turns out, they still are responsible for the majority of home management and childrearing responsibilities.  

Men are doing much more than they used to, even when I was a young adult.  I see my son and son in law doing laundry, cooking, picking up the children from day care, cleaning, and I am glad to see their involvement in the household.  

But a reaction to the emancipation of women and men all being able to function freely in the home and in the workplace and in society is the emergence of toxic masculinity.  Men who feel threatened and victimized and who want their power and privilege back and who want women to work for them again.  They don’t want to see the abuse, the limitations, the problems with the old system.  

Last week we went to see the opera ‘Carmen’ written by Georges Bizet in 1875.  In the opening scene of the opera, the townspeople and the local cadre of soldiers are in the plaza and the women from the cigarette factory emerge at the end of their shift.  Well, the soldiers, especially, are all over the women.  It was pretty hard to watch from the perspective of today’s sensibilities.  Our daughter who was at the opera with us pronounced the behavior of the men gross and scary.  I’m with her.  

This is not part of the heritage of our faith, this degradation and abuse of women.  From the evidence we have in the New Testament, we know that Jesus very much encouraged women to be freed of the limitations placed upon them by society and religion.  There were women leaders in the early church.  Women disciples.  Women who taught and healed and preached, just like the men.  But the men of the Jesus movement had a hard time accepting that and worked to confine the roles of women in the decades after Jesus’ death.  

So what does our faith offer as encouragement for those who seek to share the love of God in a fatherly way today?  These may be actual biological fathers, or those who are in a fathering role in the lives of children and young people, and let me echo what Christy has put on the Father’s Day bulletin board.  A father’s role is extremely important to the development of young people and there are so many children who do not have a significant male presence in their lives.  

So, since it is Trinity Sunday, I have a trinitarian structure for thinking about the important role of men today as fathers and father figures.  In our traditional concept of the Trinity, three ways of imagining God, we start with God as creator, as in Genesis, the first book of the Bible.   God as the force and imagination behind all that is, the cosmos, the earth, the web of life, all of nature.  The whole system that keeps us alive.  So for father figures today, I suggest as a first principle, PROVIDE.  Provide for the children and the young people.  Provide material necessities, yes.  Housing, food, clothing, diapers, safety.  Provide healthcare.  And school supplies.  And creative afterschool activities and lessons.  Yes, but also provide emotional support.  Provide moral guidance. Provide a faith foundation.  Spiritual teaching.  Something that can be counted on throughout life.  Provide resources and ideas.  Provide a good example.  Of how to live a modest life while giving and sharing with others.  Be an example of generosity and work for justice so that everyone can be provided for.  So, a father figure needs to be a provider and that does’t stop with money.  

In our traditional conception of the Trinity, the second part of the Trinity is Christ Jesus.  And one thing that Jesus did was to protect people – from hunger, from sickness, and from bad, harmful ideas and behaviors.  So, a father figure also needs to PROTECT children and youth.  Yes, see that they are safe.  That they are not vulnerable to violence.  Or to abuse.  Or disease.  Protect children from bullying.  From them being preyed upon by consumerism.  A father needs to protect children from being indoctrinated with racism and sexism and homophobia.  Children need to be protected from ethnocentrism and looking down on others because of who they are.   Children need to be protected from thinking they are better than others, and from thinking they are less than others.  Children and young people need to be protected from drugs and from false information and from abusive relationships. They need to be protected from the already damaging and harmful affects of global warming and climate change.   Children also need to know that all children and young people, indeed all people, deserve to be protected from harm, however it may come.  It is never ok to harm another person or the Earth.  All deserve protection.  While many of us don’t have to worry about old fashioned concerns like our child being kicked by a horse or contracting polio, there are still many things that can harm a young person today, so a father figure is needed to provide protection in a variety of ways. 

In our traditional view of the Trinity, the third expression of the Trinity is Spirit, Sophia, a feminine aspect to the Trinity.  And this aspect is portrayed in scripture as present at creation, enjoying the delights of creation, and enlivening the human spirit created in the image of God.  So, the last of the three factors important to expressing fathering love that we will discuss today is PLAY.  This also goes with Jesus’ reputation as someone who was known for eating and drinking and partying with his friends.  Play.  Fathers need to make sure that their children know how to play.  How to enjoy themselves and others and have fun.   Parents need to make sure to teach children to approach the natural world with awe and wonder.  Fathers need to model having fun, taking pleasure in hobbies or other interests.  Fathers need to make sure children know that we are here for more than work.  We are here to enjoy this wonderful life and to take pleasure in the world around us and the creativity we have to share.  The Spirit reminds us of the need to play.

So, my holy Trinity for Father’s Day is Provide, Protect, and Play.   Our well being, our future, our joy cannot be magically handed to us by one exceptional parent.  Even someone as spectacular as the valiant woman of Proverbs!  

The job of a valiant father is to provide, protect, and play.  With all the children in his life, and the children of the world.  So may all adults care for all children.  Amen.  

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PFLAG Fundraiser

There was a fundraiser for PFLAG (formerly, Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays) at the shuffleboard courts in St. Petersburg on Friday June 6, 2025.  Those pictured, left to right:  Sharon Dunaway-Alt,  Danielle Hintz, Janet Blair, and Paula Pelletier.  There was a tremendous turnout and the LUCC volunteers had a wonderful time!

Sermon Text 4.20.25 “Rock Solid!”

LAKEWOOD UNITED CHURCH OF CHRIST

2601 54th Avenue South  St. Petersburg, FL  33712 on the Gulf of Mexico

On land originally inhabited by the Tocabaga

727-867-7961

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Date: April 20, 2025   Easter Intergenerational Service including children

Scripture Lesson:  Luke 24:1-12

Sermon: Rock Solid

Pastor: Rev. Kim P. Wells

In the summer of 2000, our family took a road trip to Newfoundland.  Yes, all the way up the east coast.  All the way – past Maine and beyond.  Newfoundland is an island so you have to get there by boat, in our case, a ferry.  On the west coast of Newfoundland is the Gros Morne National Park.  It is a UNESCO World Heritage site.  It is 1805 square kilometers of history.  Four hundred and eighty-five million years of history.  You can see outcroppings of the earth’s mantle that are half a billion years old.  We took a hike with a park ranger who explained much of the geology and history of the park to us.  You can see many layers of rock and these layers tell the story of the formation of the earth as we know it.  I was shocked.  I learned so much about the formation of the earth and its current configuration.  And then came the stunner.  The rock formations with their layers that we were seeing on the west coast of Newfoundland could be matched with rock formations on the west coast of Britain because at one time the land was joined.  Now it has separated due to the movement of the tectonic plates.  These rocks tell the unfolding story of the formation of the earth.  They are history books.  And they cannot lie.  They can only tell the truth.  

This is nature.  It can only tell the truth.  It can only follow its prescribed design.  It can only unfold, emerge, and evolve as it is intended to.  It can only cooperate and fulfill its intended role in the web of life.  It cannot depart from its intended path.  It cannot defy the design of the whole.  

So, a rock is a rock.  When studied, one can ascertain many things from a rock formed along with its surroundings.  Weathering many iterations and climates that influence its characteristics.  A rock tells its truth.  Of the formation of the earth.  And the migration of the waters.  And the passing of the animal species through the eons.  Rocks bear witness to the reality of history.  A rock cannot depart from its destiny.  Nature is always fulfilling the bidding of its design, its author, Creator, the Divine Plan.  It cannot suppress its unfolding.  It cannot thwart the purposes of the whole.  

And so it is with Jesus.  As we see in the story that we remember every year on Palm Sunday.  Despite the trouble and contention that is brewing around Jesus, and he knows it, he publicly heads into Jerusalem.   No hiding in back alleys for him.  No hiding his identity and calling.  He comes in peace.  No virile steed to carry him.  Instead, a donkey.  No minions lined up to march with him.  Just regular folks, throwing their sweaty, tattered dusty cloaks upon the ground to line his path.  Jesus comes as God intends.  He comes in peace.  

Like nature, like rocks, Jesus fulfills his purpose in creation without question.  He is not concerned with fulfilling the desires of the people.  He is concerned with fulfilling the desires of God.  He is committed to expressing the love of God, the praise of God, the purposes of God.  And that alone.  That is his nature. 

The people may shout Hosanna in acclamation.  They may think that the vanquishing of the Roman Empire is at hand.  They may be relishing that finally the Romans will be crushed.  They may cheer in exhilaration.  Later in the week, when their hopes are not coming to fruition, they may cheer, Crucify Him.  They may scatter.  They may abandon Jesus in his hour of need.  All except the women.  

But Jesus stays true.  He joins with creation as a whole in fulfilling his purpose.  The influence of others is inconsequential.  Jesus will do what he will do because he is of God.  He, like all of nature, is an embodiment of Divine Love.  The self disclosure of God.  Jesus will always live praise to God, love of God, and the purposes of God.  Like a donkey.  Or a palm branch.  Or a rock.  

Thirteenth century Mechtild of Magdeburg [c.1212-1282] makes this observation about the nature of things:   

“A fish cannot drown in water.  A bird cannot fall in the air.  Gold is not dissolved in fire – for there is receives its brilliant sheen. This gift is given to everything:  To live with its own nature. How could I oppose who I am?  I am inclined toward God, and must go through all things into God.”

This Palm Sunday story is laden with references from the Hebrew Scriptures.  It did not come out of no where.  It is layered with references from Genesis, First and Second Kings, Isaiah, Zechariah, the Psalms, Habakkuk, and more.  And it echoes the other gospels.  This is to show us that Jesus is the fulfillment of the promises of old.  Here is the manifestation of God’s intentions.  He is going through all things into God.

As Jesus heads into Jerusalem to celebrate the Passover, the feast of liberation, he knows that he is coming to the end of his earthly days.  He knew well the verse from Isaiah:  

“The Most High God helps me;

therefore I have not been disgraced;

Therefore I have set my face like flint,

and I know that I shall not be put to shame;

the one who vindicates me is near.”  

“I have set my face like flint.”  Rock.  We are told, if the human voices are suppressed, “the stones would shout.”  Nature will speak its truth.  Will fulfill its destiny.  Will tell its story.  And Jesus, like nature, fulfilled his nature.  The intentions of God are served.   God prevails.   Love triumphs.  

In the movie “Everything Everywhere All At Once” there is a scene in which the mother and daughter, the main characters, are two rocks perched on the top of a cliff overlooking a desolate landscape.  They are looking into the void.  There is no talking in the scene.  Just subtitles.  They are coming to terms with their reality.  Yes, they realize how insignificant they are.  But they are there together.   And the famous take away line is, “Just be a rock.”  

Exactly.  Just be a rock if you are a rock.  Just be a human if you are a human.  Just be who you are.  Be a creature created in the Divine Image with God’s dream laid upon your heart.  

What we must ask ourselves every year as this Holy Week begins, always close to Earth Day:  Will we, with Creation, with Jesus, be true to our nature and live out God’s dream of love for us?  Amen.

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Sermon Text 6.8.25 “Messaging Today!”

LAKEWOOD UNITED CHURCH OF CHRIST
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Date: June 8, 2025   Pentecost

Scripture Lesson:  Acts 2:1-21

Sermon:  Messaging Today

Pastor: Rev. Kim P. Wells

Please note: dub stands for w which stands for win, and L stands for loss.

“Then Jesus entered his preaching era and started streaming when the chat filled up he began to cook saying

w to those who aren’t thirsty for this mid life  

for they shall live their best life

w for those who take L’s from this life

for they will receive an everlasting w

w to those who don’t do others dirty

for they shall secure the eternal bag

w to those who want help passing god’s vibe check

for he will say bet

w to those who don’t cancel others

for they will not be cancelled by the TOP G

w to those who have holy rizz

for they shall pull the holy spirit

w to those who turn opps into bros

for they shall be called ceos of peace

w to those who catch hands for being valid

for they will not be left on read by god

w to you when the opps be cappin hard

and do you so very dirty bc you’re my fam

trust, you have crushed it and have the eternal w 

for so they treated the real ones of old

and the chat spammed w and said go off king

because his teachings went hard

thus blud began to trend            [From The Gospel by Gen Z, The Beatitudes, p. 38.]

In case you did not recognize what was just read, it was the beatitudes from the book, The Gospel by Gen Z.  

You know:

Blessed are the poor for theirs is the realm of heaven.

Blessed are those who mourn for they shall be comforted.

Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit its earth, etc. from Matthew 5.

The Gospel by Gen Z was loaned to me by someone in the congregation.  I took a look at it and had no idea what was going on, so I put it aside.  A few weeks ago, my husband, Jeff, was waiting for me as I packed up to go home on a Sunday after church, and he picked up the book in my office and began reading it out loud.  Jeff has a Master of Divinity degree as well as a Doctor of Ministry degree.  He said to me, I have no idea what this is talking about.  I said, I don’t understand it either.  

And there you have it.  If this rendering of the gospel reaches some people, beautiful.  The gospel is supposed to be accessible to everyone as we heard today in the Pentecost story.  But here is the deal:  If I can’t understand the Gen Z version of the gospels, even something as basic as the beatitudes, then very likely there are people who have no idea what a church like ours is about and what is going on here.  Who don’t know anything about the gospel as we share it.  And the sad part is, coming to church might not help them very much because of this understanding gap.  If I can’t understand the Gen Z gospel, even though it is meant to be in fun, then it is very likely that someone from Gen Z coming to church may have no idea what we are talking about here.  

Let’s remember that the nones, not the Catholic sisters but those who have no religious affiliation of any kind, the nones are growing in this country.  They are  28% percent of the population.  No religions affiliation. [https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/2024/01/24/religious-nones-in-america-who-they-are-and-what-they-believe/]  They may never have set foot in a church except maybe for a wedding or a funeral, and maybe not even then.  

So, I am thinking about a none coming to church.  And hearing a reference to the crucifixion, say.  Ok.  They may have seen a picture of Jesus hanging on a cross and know that that is the crucifixion.  They may have encountered this image in an art museum.  But what is crucifixion?  Yes, it is Jesus dying on the cross.  But will people know that this was a form of capital punishment?  That Jesus died by capital punishment?  Will they know that crucifixion was the sentence given by the Romans to those accused of being traitors to the Roman Empire?  Will they know that many people were crucified, not just Jesus and the two thieves mentioned in one of the gospels?  

Christianity is based on stories about Jesus, a first century Jewish man.  Being killed on a cross.  As a traitor against the government.  Wrongly accused.  A victim of capital punishment.  Now we suddenly have a kind of revolutionary figure in Jesus.

Then maybe this Gen Z person who is a none hears the word resurrection.  Oh yes.  There is that Christian belief that Jesus came back from the dead.  And then went to heaven.  Wherever that is.  And that he welcomes people who believe in him to spend eternity with him in bliss.  

This is a basic, cultural understanding that many of the nones may have been exposed to.  But it is so bare.  The power of Divine Love in Jesus was so strong that it kept going after his body was killed.  His followers were filled with the power of his spirit and continued to share his teachings of other-centered love.  When someone who is a none hears resurrection, they probably don’t hear all that.  

People in the first century who heard the teachings of the disciples after Jesus’ death, they knew what crucifixion was.  They knew it was capital punishment meted out to those who were guilty of treason.  A person in the first century was familiar with the idea of life after death.  This was common in near eastern religions of the time.  There were other religions with other figures who were thought of as coming back from the dead.  Including figures in the Roman hierarchy.  This was a perception commonly associated with an important figure.  These things were not singular and unique to Christianity as they seem to us today.  These key concepts to our Christian belief system had much more of a context in the first century.  

Also very common was the idea of appeasing the gods, keeping them happy.  So the classic view of Jesus dying for our sins to appease God, to make things right with God, this transactional understanding of the crucifixion and the resurrection, this fit into the cultures of the first century.  

Let’s jump to today.  There are all these nones.  Thousands of nones in our country.  There are churches in other countries sending missionaries to the United States to teach people about Christianity and invite them to follow Jesus.  Well, they see the statistics of how many unchurched there are.  

In the Pentecost story, somehow, some way, all the people in the Jewish community from all over the world heard a word about God’s saving love in their own tongue.  In language they could understand.  In a way they could access.  With not only words but concepts and implications they could find meaningful and life giving. 

And in the church today?  I believe part of the reason there are so many nones is because much of the church with its archaic language and concepts no longer communicates the radical, inclusive, universal love and grace at the heart of reality.  Fundamentally, that was the message of Jesus.  All beloved.  All.  Beloved.  All provided for.  

This week, the most prominent Biblical scholar and theologian of the United Church of Christ died at 92 years old.  Now, if anyone was trying to convey the word of God, the heart of the gospel, in words, it was Walter Brueggemann.  He wrote over 100 books during his life, and countless articles and essays, and he gave innumerable speeches.  I heard him speak many times.  He was a good friend of my father.  Cathy Giesey’s husband, Jim, was a devotee of Walter Brueggemann.  

In an article written in 2022, Brueggemann had this to say about the church:  

“The Christian movement has been so domesticated by the force of empire that much of its testimony simply echoes and reiterates dominant socio­economic practice. As the church has settled for such domestication, it has become a champion of the kind of charity that remains safely inside the assumptions of confiscatory economics. Such anemic practice provides neither energy nor courage for engagement in a neighborly economy, which requires both radi­cal critique of our systemic economic arrangements and emancipated imagination about an alternative practice.

“As our society grows more frightened and more repressive, the church is faced with an urgent call for truth telling—concerning both the exposure of our predatory economic system, which produces and sustains poverty through cheap labor, and the articulation of an alternative way that will yield neighborly abundance. But as long as the church is in unthinking collusion with dominant economic assumptions, this hard and transformative truth is unlikely to be spoken aloud.”  [Quoted by Elizabeth Palmer in The Christian Century Newsletter, Books Worth Reading, 6/5/25, https://mailchi.mp/christiancentury/bwr_2025-05-19001388?e=4292cd2b37]

Friends, these are hard words to hear on Pentecost, when we think of the story of the brave, unrelenting disciples preaching the radical love of God, to people in all circumstances from all cultures and risking their lives by doing so.  Using words they could all understand.  Letting everyone know, whatever their tribe, ethnic background, whatever their gender or identity, whatever their relationship status, and whatever their station in society and their economic situation, all are loved.  Beyond measure.  And our job as human beings, created in the image of God is to take care of each other and to take care of the earth.  To love one another.  That is the message the church has been given to share.  And it is a message that has been largely suppressed. 

So, friends, we are in a country populated by people who are lonely.  The church has a response to that.  Community.  We are in a context with people who are scientific rationalists and find no meaning or comfort in the superstitious, magical thinking that they associate with the church.  We have a message for them.  We are in a time when, sadly, horrifically, poverty is growing.  Houselessness is growing.  Having two jobs to get by is a norm.  And do these people find any good news in the church?  Not much.  Poor people come to church and feel judged and less than.  Maybe they get some food from a church food bank.  But do they hear good news about an alternative reality where all contribute and all are taken care of and everyone has enough?  There are others who feel marginalized and sidelined today.  Maybe because of their past.  Or their identity.  Or their relationship status.  Do they hear love and support and welcome from the church?  Probably not.  And there are suburban families, nice folks, and they are wondering why they bother.  What is it all about?  All this business and struggle?  They feel alienated and lost.  And do they find hope and direction in the church?  Probably not.  And there are many who are extremely financially successful, and they are clearly lost when it comes to morals and values.  And we see this paraded in the news day after day after day.  Well, is the church on their radar?  Is the church saying anything relevant to their situation?  Not that they can hear.

I’m telling you, the need is there.  For the past two weeks, the church ran an ad on Craig’s List for someone to work part time in the church office.  Among those I spoke with and interviewed, most of them were really looking for a church not a job.  They said they had read our website.  They didn’t know there was a church like this.  One candidate told me that they were trying to get their light back after a series of bad relationships.  Well, come to church!

But people who are nones, or not already church inclined, don’t see this in the church. They are hungry for meaningful community where everyone matters but everyone does not agree.  And there is new life and hope that is unexpected, unsolicited, and undeserved.  And it leaves us amazed.  Astonished.  And even perplexed.  This is what we have in church.  And we need to find ways to communicate who we are and what we are about so that those who are unchurched and alienated from church can hear.  In their language.  

The word for listen used in this story from Acts, the word listen means, “let me place the word of God into your ears.”  This is our calling as a church.  To place the word of God into the ears of those who need it and there are many, all around us.  

So, there is so much need for the gospel, the good news, the life giving word of unconditional love that leads one to find meaning as part of community devoted to the well being of the whole, the common good.  But can people hear this word from us?  This precious word that has been entrusted to us?  The gospel?

On our first family trip to Mexico, our soon to be 30 year old son, Malcolm, was a young ‘un.  So, in the US, that means that they get in free to museums and things like that.  When we went to visit something of cultural interest and there was a fee, we would ask if there was a fee for the child.  The nino.  Es libre?  We would ask.  As we bought tickets for Jeff and me, and our older kids, Sterling and Angela, we would ask if Malcolm was libre.  Libre is the word for free in Spanish.  We got some strange looks.  Puzzled.  Usually we did not have to pay for him.  But there were always these weird reactions to our question.  Finally a Mexican person who knew English explained the issue to us.  We were asking, is Malcolm libre?  Libre means free, like not a prisoner, not a slave.  Free.  The word for free, as in no charge for something, is gratis.  When there is no fee, then you go in gratis.  For free.  Gratis.  Of course.  Two words for free.  Libre.  And gratis.  We were using the wrong word.  And so there was misunderstanding.  

Friends, we find life-giving community here.  We find our spirits soar in service to the least and the lost.  We have come to know that helping others is life-giving for us.  We have found family and joy in this community.  There are so many around us languishing.  The nones, yes.  But so many others.  Who feel alienated.  Separated from society.  And from their highest good.  And so many who feel afraid and lost.  Friends, we don’t have all the answers, but we do know that love will see us through.  As it saw the disciples through the most harrowing experience of their lives:  the wrongful death of their beloved teacher and friend, by capital punishment as an enemy of the state.  The experience of his presence among them after he had died.  Their desperate fear for their own lives.  And the life-giving, energizing, freeing experience of the Spirit of the God of Love that launched them from hiding in a back room to preaching in the streets.  

As a church, as a pastor, may we remain committed to new expressions of the gospel that are life giving for people today and tomorrow.  The world depends on it.

Amen.  

A reasonable effort has been made to appropriately cite materials referenced in this sermon. For additional information, please contact Lakewood United Church of Christ.