The theme for this Advent season at Lakewood United Church of Christ is JOY to the World. Each day during the Advent season, a reflection on a scripture passage related to JOY will be posted. We hope these daily reflections help you to have a joy-filled Advent.
Then I’ll be able to hold my head up,
even with my enemies surrounding me.
I will offer in your Tabernacle
sacrifices of great joy –
I’ll sing and make music to you, Adonai!
Psalm 27:6
The Christmas season is a time of gift giving. The carol, “We Three Kings” celebrates gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh being brought to Jesus to honor him. Advertisements and stores entice us with gift ideas. We may encourage children (and adults!) to make Christmas lists of what they would like to receive for Christmas. Take a few moments to think about some gifts that you have received at Christmas. Is there a special one? Something that really stands out? Can you remember gifts from childhood? Do you still have special Christmas gifts from years past?
This is a season not just to receive gifts, but also to give gifts. Maybe you have a list of the gifts you are giving to others – family, neighbors, coworkers. Think back over Christmases past. Consider some of the gifts you have given. Can you remember something that took special thought or effort? Is there one that was simply perfect? Can you remember the expression on the face of the person to whom it was given? The circumstances? The reaction of others? Take time to remember some gifts you have given at Christmas.
In thinking back on Christmas gifting, did you find you remembered more about what you received or about what you you gave? What came to mind more readily? What was most memorable? Most meaningful?
As we think about joy this season, consider the joy factor associated with exchanging gifts. Do you think you felt more joyful about gifts received or gifts given? Is there truth for you in the scriptural adage, “It is more blessed to give than to receive?” [Acts 20:35]
The verse from the Psalms cited above mentions being surrounded by enemies. Yet even in those dire circumstances, the writer celebrates what he is able to give. The writer associates joy with sacrifice. Making an effort, giving, offering something is a source of joy. So as we prepare to celebrate the birth of Jesus, maybe we will experience more joy if we shift our focus from what we will get to what we are giving.
Prayer
We are blessed to live in a context of abundance in which we can give and receive gifts. While our culture lures us into consuming things, may our focus shift to what we are offering, giving, and even giving up this season. This is in keeping with the true spirit of Jesus who had few material possessions and gave of himself freely not counting the cost, but instead savoring the joy. Amen.