
In the story of the nativity from Matthew, it is Joseph who is visited by an angel in his dreams. Maybe it was Gabriel? We aren’t told. But we are told of a dream and an angel. And in the dream, Jospeh is told to go through with his marriage to Mary despite the unusual circumstances. The child will be special.
So, Joseph is given a choice. Does he listen to this angel visitation in his dreams? Or was it indigestion? We are told, “When Joseph awoke from sleep, he did as the angel of the God commanded him. . .” Joseph and Mary were married and Jesus was born.
This story reminds us that men, too, have a say so in child bearing and reproductive rights. Men have a role to play and they are to take responsibility for the life of a child. This is not for mothers alone.
There are many paintings and renderings of Mary and Jesus. But very few classic images that feature Joseph and Jesus alone. And yet, the gospel of Matthew tells us of Joseph, listening to the angel and choosing to be the human father of Jesus.
Later in the gospel of Matthew, Joseph is told in another dream to take Mary and Jesus to Egypt to keep them safe while King Herod pursues the slaughter of the innocents. Again, Joseph listens to the angel in his dreams and take the family to Egypt.
In yet another dream, Jospeh is told when Herod has died, and the holy family returns to Palestine and makes their home in Nazareth.
As a father, Joseph is tuned in, listening, and receptive to the directives of God so that he can be a fully functioning, responsible parent and not just abdicate all family matters to Mary.
Prayer: It takes so much to raise a child in these challenging times. May we create a world that nurtures children and encourages parents and caring adults to help children thrive. Amen.
This devotion was prepared by Rev. Kim P. Wells, pastor of Lakewood United Church of Christ in St. Petersburg, FL.



