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Corona Sabbath 40 Fourth Sunday of Advent LOVE

These weeks when we cannot gather in person for Sunday worship, Lakewood United Church of Christ is providing brief weekly sabbath programs for you to listen to on your own or with others in your social isolation group. They will be posted on Friday so that you can schedule your sabbath time to suit your schedule and your spiritual inclinations. We hope these programs are of spiritual support to you in these difficult times.
The post this week focuses on the theme for the fourth Sunday of Advent – Love.
This post includes a scripture reading from Jim Andrews, a reflection from Rev. Kim Wells and a music video by Hilton Jones. We hope this post helps to feed your spirit in these difficult times as we prepare to celebrate the birth of Jesus.
You are invited to find a quiet space, inside or outside. Light a candle. Take a look around you. Breathe. Life-giving breath. Be present.
You may begin with this reading, Virgin of the Sign:
She looks upon you She looks beyond you She looks through your soul and into the Eternity behind your soul. Suddenly she is a Mirror of Eternity Dwelling in Your own fragile flesh. --Suzanne Guthrie
When you are ready, start the video below
(For written text of the above video click HERE.)
As you listen to the music that follows, you are invited to notice the thoughts and feelings that arise for you.
In closing, you are invited to offer the following closing reading:
“We are all meant to be mothers of God. What good is it to me if this eternal birth of the divine Son takes place unceasingly but does not take place within myself? And, what good is it to me if Mary is full of grace if I am not also full of grace? What good is it to me for the Creator to give birth to his Son if I do not also give birth to him in my time and my culture?”
Meister Eckhart, 14th century
Breathe. Breathe again. Be filled. With love. Extinguish your candle and engage whatever may come with a sense of peace and a desire to serve.
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Corona Sabbath 40 Fourth Sunday of Advent LOVE Reflection Text
Greetings and welcome to Corona Sabbath. This is one of the ways the church is endeavoring to offer spiritual support during these challenging days of COVID-19. We appreciate your feedback and suggestions.
We listen to Luke 1:26-45, 56 telling us of the angel Gabriel’s visit to Mary and Mary’s visit to her kinswoman, Elizabeth. Mary finds affirmation of the presence of God, Divine Love, in her life.
Six months later, the angel Gabriel was sent from God to a town in Galilee called Nazareth, to a young woman named Mary; she was engaged to a man named Joseph, of the house of David. Upon arriving, the angel said to Mary, “Rejoice, highly favored one! God is with you! Blessed are you among women!”
Mary was deeply troubled by these words and wondered what the angel’s greeting meant. The angel went on to say to her, “Don’t be afraid, Mary. You have found favor with God. You’ll conceive and bear a son, and give him the name Jesus -‘Deliverance.’ His dignity will be great, and he will be called the Only Begotten of God. God will give Jesus the judgment seat of David, his ancestor, to rule over the house of Jacob forever, and his reign will never end.”
Mary said to the angel, “How can this be, since I have never been with a man?”
The angel answered her, “The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you – hence the offspring to be born will be called the Holy One of God. Know too that Elizabeth, your kinswoman, has conceived a child in her old age; she who was thought to be infertile is now in her sixth month. Nothing is impossible with God.”
Mary said, “I am the servant of God. Let it be done to me as you say.”
With that, the angel left her.
Within a few days Mary set out and hurried to the hill country to a town of Judah, where she entered Zechariah’s house and greeted Elizabeth.
As soon as Elizabeth heard Mary’s greeting, the child leaped in her womb and Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit. In a loud voice she exclaimed, “Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb! But why am I so favored, that the mother of the Messiah should come to me? The moment your greeting reached my ears, the child in my womb leaped for joy. Blessed is she who believed that what Our God said to her would be accomplished!” . . . Mary stayed with Elizabeth about three months and then returned home.
Reflection from Kim
The scene between Mary and the angel Gabriel is well known and celebrated. Do not be afraid. And Mary’s response – Let it be. These words and images are familiar from art and music and popular culture.
But this year, in this season, I find myself drawn to the story of the visitation between Mary and Elizabeth. Maybe this is because in this covid year, we are lacking in such visitations. We are not seeing our kin – our aunts, uncles, cousins, grandchildren, grandparents, and other kin. So we are struck once again by this beautiful story about Mary and Elizabeth.
We are told of Mary going to visit Elizabeth. Mary clearly had some need. Maybe Mary knew Elizabeth to be wise and discerning. Someone who could be trusted. Whatever her need and her reasons, we are told of her journey to visit Elizabeth. And this visit is prolonged. And these two pregnant women, both in unusual circumstances, find solidarity with each other. Elizabeth was stuck at home with her husband, Zechariah, who was struck dumb. So maybe she was feeling lonely and isolated and appreciated the visit of her relative, Mary. And maybe Mary was feeling alone and isolated in her pregnancy. Maybe she needed support and affirmation that she was not getting at home. So we are told of this visit in which each woman finds support and celebration as they bear love into the world.
In this beautiful story we see the importance of community and relationships in the journey of faith. We see how we need others to help sustain us as we seek to live the love we are to share in the world. We see how we are needed to encourage and support others as they seek to live out their call to love. We human beings are not meant to be solitary. We need each other for support and for accountability and celebration.
I remember one year as part of our stewardship initiative here at church we had people talk about how the church is important to them and why they come to church. One comment has stayed with me: I come to church because I never know how I might be needed. Just showing up, we don’t know. We don’t know what conversation, what encounter, what comment, we may have to offer, is desperately needed by someone. We come not knowing what support and encouragement we will give. And we may leave church on Sunday having no idea how we have touched someone’s life. We also come not knowing how we will be visited: How we will receive something from someone that will shed light on how we are being called to bear Divine Love in the world. We don’t know what exactly may happen, but we know that the faith community is a context that is ripe for such interactions and theophanies.
In the book, All About Love: New Vistas, bell hooks says this: “Communities sustain life – not nuclear families, or the ‘couple,’ and certainly not the rugged individualist.” [p. 129] Communities. Hooks reminds us that we need each other. We need each other in the faith community to sustain full, flourishing, abundant life and love. We are not meant to make the journey alone. We all need a communal context in which to learn to give and receive love. As the African proverb reminds us, It takes a village.
But modern society, despite social media, is in some ways more and more isolating. In some ways, our relationship circles have gotten smaller. Hooks makes this keen observation about that:
“Capitalism and patriarchy together, as structures of domination, have worked overtime to undermine and destroy this larger unit of extended kin. Replacing the family community with a more privatized small autocratic unit helped increase alienation and made abuses of power more possible. . . By encouraging the segregation of nuclear families from the extended family, women were forced to become more dependent on an individual man, and children more dependent on an individual woman. It is this dependence that became, and is, the breeding ground for abuses of power.” [p. 130]
This analysis reminds us why the church may be more important in our lives now more than ever. We need the people with whom we have a shared view of reality and with whom we share fundamental values to help us to be who we are created to be. We need our faith community to help us listen for the callings in our lives. We need each other to affirm that we are here to birth love into the world, each in our own way.
The society around us is going to try to make us into economic components, inputs, in the economic system that drives our country. But our faith tells us that we are not here to make money, we are here to make love. To love and be loved. To be part of the unfolding of universal, unconditional love.
The scene between Mary and Elizabeth is a powerful image reminding us that we need each other to bear up and carry out our calling to embody Divine Love in the world. We hear many stories in these covid days of the toll of isolation and lack of social contact. It is real. I know many from our church are simply missing each other. When we finally had a masked, physically distanced outdoor service for Thanksgiving, everyone was simply filled with joy to see each other. For the interaction: the social contact with this precious faith community that sustains us. For we know that just being together at church may be the locus for that word, that comment, that conversation, that helps us to see more clearly how we are being called to love. In this covid time, we are realizing that to be without church, it is almost like feeling starved or thirsty. Cut off from the sustaining support and encouragement that we need to help us hear our call to bear love into the world. You may be someone’s angel Gabriel. Someone may be your Elizabeth. You may be someone’s Mary. While it is harder to be physically together at this moment, may we remember that we have our faith community to sustain us and may this time apart remind us of the importance of our being together. May this covid time be the advent of new life for us and for our faith community. Amen.
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Advent Candle Lighting Liturgy and Daily Devotions for Week 4
This Advent season of 2020 the focus is on rekindling the gift of God. We certainly need our spiritual grounding and the gifts of faith to sustain us during these difficult times.
There is a ritual for lighting the Advent wreath each Sunday. Then there is a reading for each day of the week based on the theme of the week’s candle.
May we rekindle the gifts of hope, peace, joy, and love this Advent season!
Rekindle the Gift of Love

Lighting the Fourth Advent Candle – LOVE
In our homes we gather around wreaths to pray our lost hopes, broken peace, limited joys, and love so hard to find and share in this season of coronavirus. We affirm that our candles mean we claim the power to call this season Advent, when God’s light comes into the world and nothing can overcome it.
Light three candles.
We light the candles of hope, peace, and joy.
Light the fourth candle.
We now light the candle of love even when many things dim our flame of love.
name places, issues, concerns, and people that need the healing power of unconditional love
God’s love illuminates hatred with a compassionate heart and lights the wick of love in our lives so that we may shine on the world with the flame of unconditional love. Amen
Monday Dec. 21 LOVE
‘Whoever does not love does not know God, for God is love.’
1 John 4:8
This is a fundamental understanding of the Christian faith. God is love. We see that love in Jesus. And he reminds us that we, too, are created to love.
While this season may involve giving lots of gifts, and this year, that might involve sending lots of packages, here we pause. And we ask, How am I sharing love in the world? We are here to love, to be love, to give love. So how are we embodying that love to others? It may very well be in a wrapped gift, sent through the mail. But there is so much more than that.
And while we are thinking of the love we have to give and share, we need to think about how we are loving ourselves. How are we tending the flame of love within us?
Prayer
As we prepare to celebrate the birth of Jesus, the birth of love, may we feel the love within us rekindled. And may we, too, birth love into the world. Amen.
Tuesday Dec. 22 LOVE
‘Take your son, your only son Isaac, whom you love, and go to the land of Moriah, and offer him there as a burnt offering on one of the mountains that I shall show you.’
Genesis 22:2
The verse above is the first time in the Bible that the word ‘love’ is used. And what a story! Abraham is told to take his only child, Isaac, into the wilderness as a sacrifice. Once at the site, a ram appears caught in the thicket and Abraham is told to sacrifice the ram and not his son. This brutal story is echoed in the story of God giving up Jesus as a sacrifice. Love is not all hearts and rainbows. Real love is messy. It involves sacrifice. It causes pain. To live a life of love does not mean a life that is pain-free. So while we celebrate love this season, we are aware that love involves pain and grief.
This year we especially remember families who have lost loved ones to covid and as well as other causes. We remember those who cannot be with loved ones. Much love. Much sadness.
Prayer
Love is our primary purpose as human beings. We pray that we might give ourselves over to love, receive the gift, give the gift, even knowing it will involve pain and grief. To avoid pain we may deny our deepest humanity and the humanity of others. And that causes a different kind of suffering. May we remember that there is also healing and meaning and purpose and joy in love. Amen.
Wednesday Dec. 23 LOVE
‘This is my commandment that you love one another as I have loved you.’
John 15:12
In Jesus, we see a love that crosses boundaries, builds bridges, and overcomes divisions and labels assigned by society. How we need that kind of love in our world and in our country now!
As we await the celebration of Christmas, these last few days of anticipation, may we remember that Christmas really is for everyone. Love is for everyone or it isn’t really love.
Prayer
May we open ourselves to the love that is being given to the world at Christmas. May we remember that love is for everyone. No one is left out or forgotten. Amen.
Thursday Dec. 24 LOVE
‘And now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; and the greatest of these is love.’
1 Corinthians 13:13
It’s Christmas Eve. Maybe a happy time for you. Maybe a sad time. Maybe a festive time. Maybe more subdued. Maybe there is disappointment. Maybe gratitude. Maybe your feelings are mixed. Whatever you are feeling this Christmas Eve, look for the love. Maybe you have to dig a little. Maybe it’s covered or hidden. Maybe it’s not where you expected to find it. But search it out. Love is the heart of Christmas and it is most certainly present!
Prayer
Whatever may please or disappoint this Christmas, may we look for the love. It is there. Everywhere. And it is the only thing that really matters. Amen.
Friday Dec. 25 CHRISTMAS DAY!
Celebrate the gifts of hope, peace, joy, and love that you are being given this Christmas!
List all the ways you are receiving these gifts today!