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Sermon 5.21.23

LAKEWOOD UNITED CHURCH OF CHRIST
2601 54th Avenue South  St. Petersburg, FL  33712
On land originally inhabited by the Tocabaga
727-867-7961

lakewooducc.org
lakewooducc@gmail.com

Date: May 21, 2023
Scripture Lesson: 1 Peter 4:12-16, 5:6-11
Sermon: Cast Your Cares Upon God
Pastor:  Rev. Kim P. Wells

This past week I spoke with someone I have known for years about his childhood.  I had assumed that he had a typical upbringing in the 50’s and 60’s — until our recent conversation.  I found out the this person’s father died when he was 5 or 6 years old.  And then his mother died when he was in what was then called junior high.  And his brother, 7 years older, was his guardian.  

The two brothers lived together in the familial home.  Then when he was in high school, the brother was drafted – this was during the Vietnam War.  So, the brother went off to the service.  And my friend continued to live in the family home by himself and to finish high school.  He got a check for about $84 a month from Social Security and that is what he used to pay the utilities, etc.  The house was paid for.  As he told me about all of this, he did not seem sad or burdened.  This was simply his story.  His ‘normal.’  

I must have looked appalled or aghast as I listened because my friend added, “Things were different then.”  Yes, they were.  But still.  A high schooler left to raise himself?  I asked him, how was it being by yourself?  Were you lonely?  No, not really.  He had lots of friends and their parents helped to look out for him.  One parent of a friend saw to it that he was not drafted.  And he had lots of extended family in the area and they were looking out for him.  He had a community of support and he was able to move on with his life, get an education, work productively in his chosen career, and not really be significantly negatively impacted by his situation.  

This morning, we heard from First Peter, verses addressed to a people living under duress;  in adverse circumstances.  One thing they are told is not to bring more suffering upon themselves by doing evil like “being a murderer, a thief, an evildoer, or a destroyer of another’s rights.”  Note that – destroyer of another’s rights.  We can relate to that!  Some of our supposed Christian elected officials need to be reading their Bibles. 

In addition to not doing evil themselves, the people who are suffering are told to cast their cares on God.  In another translation, ‘cares’ is translated ‘anxiety.’  “Cast all your anxiety on God.”  Well, we, too, know about cares and anxiety in spite of the fact that we live in a time of access to amazing material comforts and medical care.  Still, who does not have anxiety – about death, health issues, finances, the future, global warming, our children and grandchildren, our society, those who are being left out and left behind, the rights that are being taken away from people, gun violence, and so much more.  No matter how much money we have or how comfortable and stable our life may seem, being a human being involves worry and anxiety.  And despite all of our accomplishments and progress as a species the experiencing of anxiety is on the rise on our context.  Maybe this is influenced by the internet which makes us aware of so much more pain in the world and in the lives of others.  And with more information sometimes it seems there is more to be afraid of.  No more ‘ignorance is bliss.’  Anxiety is on the rise.  And medical science has shown that the stress of anxiety has negative effects upon our physical health which gives us even more to worry about!  Articles abound about how to calm your anxieties through breathing, therapy, processing, relaxation exercises, etc.  First Peter invites us to add cast your cares, your anxieties, upon God as another tool in our kit to decrease our worries and our fears. 

So I am interested in this advice, cast your cares upon God.  We can be sure that this includes prayer.  Offering our worries, our fears, our anxiety, our grief, to God, how ever we may understand God, in prayerful devotion.  That is very important and can be extremely effective.  We are invited to unburden ourselves to God.  Through prayer, meditation, journaling, walking the labyrinth, and other spiritual disciplines.  I also think this casting your cares upon God is something that can happen when we gather as a faith community and share our concerns.  

The advisors are the governing board of our church.  They meet regularly to discuss things like personnel issues, property concerns, finances.  Always finances!  But at the beginning of each meeting, we begin with ‘check in.’  Each person is invited to share what is going on with them.  And then we extend that to the people of the church community for whom we are concerned.  We are at the meeting to be the church.  And yes, that involves administration, but I would hate to think that someone came to an advisors meeting heavily burdened and all we did was discuss the bank balance and the plumbing problem.  We are here to incarnate the love of Christ to one another, to share each other’s burdens and joys.  That’s why we bother with the budget. 

Cast your cares upon God.  To me, that is what we are here as a congregation to do.  And yes, we pray, but we also share our burdens, our anxieties, our cares, in community, in relationship with one another, and receive needed support and sympathy.   How did my friend make it through his stressful childhood?  With the support of a community of family and friends.  We are here to be that community for each other.

I remember one year, in stewardship season, I think, we had people in the congregation talk about what the church means to them and why they come to church.  One person mentioned, that she comes to church in part because “somebody may need me.”  Cast your cares.  We come with our needs and cares and anxieties but we also come knowing someone else may come needing us – to listen, to offer spiritual support, to care.  Yes, at church on Sunday there is singing and praying and praising and teaching, but there is also what appears to be casual conversation that may very well be an opportunity for us to share cares and worries and anxieties and know that they are received with love and concern.  In these exchanges we incarnate the love and care of God to one another.  

So I would like to invite you to take a few moments to think about what cares, worries, or anxieties are weighing on your heart this morning.  What is keeping you up at night?  Maybe something in your own life.  Maybe something in the life of someone you care about.  Maybe something in our society involving concern for others negatively impacted by societal forces.  So you are invited to just reflect for a few moments on the cares and anxieties that you are carrying within you at this moment.  

PAUSE

Now I would like to invite you to turn to someone else who is here this morning and have a brief conversation about your cares and concerns.  You can talk with someone you know or someone who is new to you.  I encourage you to consider talking with someone that you don’t typically engage with.  You can get up and move.  You can adjust the chairs to suit your conversation.  So, take 5 minutes or so to share something that is weighing on your heart with someone who is here this morning and to listen to the cares of another.

SMALL GROUP CONVERSATION

Is there anyone who would like to comment on this experience before we wrap up?

Cast your cares upon God.  That is one of the things we do at church each week.  Yes, it can be a private, prayerful, experience, but it can also be a social experience done in community as we have done here today.  We are incarnating the love of God to one another as Jesus did.  We are sharing the cares and burdens we bring.  We are offering solace and spiritual support by listening and caring.  We are embodying Divine Love to one another.  And if you did not come with concerns that you need to unburden, you can be uplifted knowing that you helped to ease the burden of someone else by hearing their cares.  

We close with a prayer from contemporary mystic Andrew Harvey:

Mother,
Make of my heart
A vast bed of peace
Where you can lay down your heart
And rest from the agony that harrows it
From all we are and continue to do.
As you comfort me, so may I comfort you.
[Andrew Harvey, contemporary mystic]
Amen.

A reasonable effort has been made to appropriately cite materials referenced in this sermon. For additional information, please contact Lakewood United Church of Christ.

Resignation

This arrangement of mine is a musical reflections on the hymn tune, Resignation, a melody of anonymous authorship from William Walker’s “Southern Harmony, and Musical Companion” (1835).

The second “verse” of the arrangement is a minor key treatment of the melody. It returns to a more upbeat character on the “third” verse, and an even more positive statement on the “fourth” verse.

The sheet music is available at https://www.sheetmusicplus.com/title/resignation-for-solo-piano-digital-sheet-music/22511247 and https://www.sheetmusicdirect.com/en-US/se/ID_No/1330431/Product.aspx.

I don’t have videos of me playing a lot of these solo piano arrangements. I recorded them before I got into the practice of making videos. When there’s no video, I’m using a score synchronized with my audio recording.

Bulletin 5.21.23

Bulletin 5.21.23

WELCOME AND ANNOUNCEMENTS

LIGHTING THE PEACE CANDLE  Colleen Coughenour, liturgist

         I will not be involved with the dreams of angry men.

Hmong Villager, Laos

PRELUDE      As Time Goes By  Hupfeld

* OPENING READING — Lady in Waiting   Hebe Welbourne 

        
Waiting — for what?
         For your child to wake,
         To need you, to leave you?
         For the coming of Christ?
         For social security, justice, aid?
         For a lucky chance?
         For the passage of time?
         Enduring the pain
         Which can only be borne
         Enfolded in the space
         Between times.
         Lady, let me join you
         In the space between,
         Where all joys and sorrows are
         Meeting.    
      
*  HYMN 
    What a Covenant       471

SCRIPTURE LESSON – 1 Peter 4:12-16, 5:6-11

Don’t be surprised, my dear friends, that a trial by fire is occurring in your midst.  It is a test for you, but it shouldn’t catch you off guard.  Rejoice, instead, insofar as you share the Savior’s sufferings, so that when the glory of Christ is revealed, you will rejoice exceedingly.  Happy are you when you are insulted for the sake of Christ, for then God’s Spirit in her glory has come to rest on you.

See to it, however, that none of you suffers for being a murderer, a thief, an evildoer, or a destroyer of another’s rights.  If anyone suffers for being a follower of Christ, however, that one ought not be ashamed, but rather should glorify God in virtue of that Name. 

Therefore, humble yourselves before God’s mighty power, that you may be exalted by God on the appointed day.

Cast all your cares on God, who cares for you.  Be sober.  Be watchful.  For your adversary the Devil roams about like a roaring lion seeking someone to devour.  Stand up to the devil as one strong in faith, fortified with the knowledge that your sisters and brothers throughout the world share the same afflictions. 

But the God of all grace, who called you to eternal glory through Jesus Christ, will fulfill, restore, strengthen and establish you after you have suffered a little while.  To God be glory and dominion forever and ever!  Amen.


* HYMN       Be Not Dismayed      460
                                     
SERMON        Rev. Kim P. Wells
        
UNISON
READING — Give Me Someone   
Author once known, Japan, adapted

         When I am famished,
                  Give me someone who needs food;
         When I am thirsty,
                  Send me someone who needs water;
         When I am cold,
                  Send me someone to warm; 
        
When I am hurting,
                  Send me someone to console; . . . .
         When I am poor,
                  Lead someone needy to me;
         When I have no time,
                  Give me someone to help for a moment;
         When I am criticized,
                  Give me someone to praise;
         When I am discouraged,
                  Send me someone to encourage;
         When I need another’s understanding,
                  Give me someone who needs mine;
         When I need somebody to take care of me,
                  Send me someone to care for;
         When I think too much of myself,
                  Turn my thoughts toward someone else.        


ANTHEM      Come by the Hills    Irish, trad.

MISSION STATEMENT

         The mission of Lakewood United Church of Christ, as part of the Church Universal is to:
●  Celebrate the presence and power of God in our lives & in our world.
●  Offer the hospitality and inclusive love of Christ to all people.
●  Work for God’s peace and justice throughout creation.


MORNING OFFERING

         Bring forward. . .If you would like assistance, please turn to                      someone seated near you. 

         Offertory     Syncopated Clock   Anderson
   

         *  Time of Dedication        Celtic Blessing

         When Jesus came to earth as a baby,
         He depended entirely on human love —
         That of Mary, Joseph, and the shepherds.
         When Jesus preached and healed,
         He depended entirely on human love —
         The alms given by those who heard him.
         I too depend on human love.
         The kindness of others sustains my soul.
         The gifts of others sustain my body.
         Every person depends on others’ love.
         Let no one be ashamed of their needs.
         To depend on others is to imitate Christ.    
                     
*  PREPARATION FOR PRAYER
 
Won’t You Let Me Be Your Servant  539
        
MORNING PRAYERS – SAVIOR’S PRAYER
 

Fathering and Mothering God, lover of us all, most holy one.
Help us to respond to you
To create what you want for us here on earth.
Give us today enough for our needs.
Forgive our weak and deliberate offenses,
Just as we must forgive others when they hurt us.
Help us to resist evil and to do what is good.
For we are yours, endowed with your power to make the world whole. Amen.

*  HYMN       Send Me, Lord      360
                     
*  BENEDICTION      Catholic Bishops of Appalachia

         They sing of a life
         free and simple,
         with time for one another,
         and for people’s needs,
         based on the dignity of the human person,
         at one with nature’s beauty. . .
*  CONGREGATIONAL RESPONSE  (please form a circle)

Teje, tejenos juntos,                                    Teje, tejenos juntos,
Tejenos juntos en unidad y amor.             Tejenos juntos, juntos en el amor.                                                   
        
*  POSTLUDE     I’m Bidin’ My Time    Gershwin

ANNOUNCEMENTS

AHEAD –

LUCC will be participating in the UCC Climate Card initiative letting legislators know that we support efforts to eliminate global warming.  Look for more information soon!

For Pentecost, please plan on bringing a candle to church to be used in worship.

Circle of Concern

Jeff Wells and family over the death of his brother, Frank Wells
Erik Johnson
Ann Quinn is under Hospice care
Ron Spivack
Janet Hall
Family and Loved Ones of Dave Radens, husband of Marg Radens
Schools: Students, families, teachers, and staff


Congregational Meeting

Sermon 5.14.23 Mother’s Day

LAKEWOOD UNITED CHURCH OF CHRIST
2601 54th Avenue South  St. Petersburg, FL  33712
On land originally inhabited by the Tocabaga
727-867-7961

lakewooducc.org
lakewooducc@hkjones
Date: May 14, 2023 Mother’s Day
Scripture Lessons: Genesis 3:21, Isaiah 46:3-4, 49:15, 66:12-13, and Matthew 23:37

Sermon: Motherhood and God
Pastor:  Rev. Kim P. Wells

Elizabeth Cady Stanton is well known for her role in the women’s suffrage movement.  She gave her life and passion and energy to securing the right to vote for women in the United States though the 19th amendment did not pass until 18 years after her death.  Cady Stanton was not just concerned about getting women the right to vote.  She was also dedicated to the elevation of the status of women in our country and our culture. She was a passionate advocate for women’s rights in the 19th century.  She was also a wife and mother of 7 children!

Cady Stanton’s analysis of the society around her led her to see the Bible and religion as one of the main factors contributing to the degraded status of women in America.  She believed that “the church was the greatest barrier to women’s full emancipation.”  [Elizabeth Schussler Fiorenza, Searching the Scriptures:  A Feminist Introduction, p. 56.]  She declared:  “Whatever the Bible may be made to do in Hebrew or Greek, in plain English it does not exalt and dignify woman.”  [Introduction to The Woman’s Bible, Elizabeth Cady Stanton and the Revising Committee, p. 12.]

So she set about bringing together a group of women to write The Woman’s Bible which would be a commentary mainly on stories about women in the Bible.  She had a very hard time getting support for this project.  

Some thought that attacking religion and the Bible was too volatile an approach and that it would sway people away from supporting the right to vote for women.  

And there were conservative Christian women who supported the right to vote because they wanted to be able to vote for things that were important to them like prohibition.  Some things don’t change.   They did not support The Woman’s Bible project.

There were others in Cady Stanton’s circle who did not think that religion was of much significance anymore in influencing society and culture.  Cady Stanton observed: 

“Again, there are some who write us that our work is a useless expenditure of force over a book that has lost its hold on the human mind.  Most intelligent women, they say, regard it simply as the history of a rude people in a barbarous age, and have no more reverence for the Scriptures than any other work.  So long as tens of thousands of Bibles are printed every year, and circulated over the whole habitable globe, and the masses in all English-speaking nations revere it as the word of God, it is vain to belittle its influence.”  [Introduction to The Woman’s Bible, Elizabeth Cady Stanton and the Revising Committee, p. 12.]

But Cady Stanton held firm on the influence of the Bible on contemporary American culture.  She reminds us:  “These familiar texts are quoted by clergymen in their pulpits, by statesmen in the halls of legislation, by lawyers in the courts and are echoed by the press of all civilized nations and accepted by woman herself as ‘The Word of God.’” [Introduction to The Woman’s Bible, Elizabeth Cady Stanton and the Revising Committee, p.8.]

While Cady Stanton was scathing in her criticisms of the Bible and Christianity, she certainly saw the good in the witness and ministry of Jesus.  One contemporary scholar reflects on her view of Jesus:  “Stanton was quick to distinguish between the teachings of Jesus, which promised a radical equality of women and men, and the teachings of the institutional church, which had continued to ignore or subvert Jesus’ message for eighteen hundred years.”  [Elizabeth Schussler Fiorenza, Searching the Scriptures:  A Feminist Introduction, pp. 53-54.]

Cady Stanton pursued The Woman’s Bible project even though it was very controversial and took many years to complete.  

And from a vantage point of over a century in the future, we can see the validity of Cady Stanton’s views on religion and the 

Bible.  They are of great influence on American society.  Still Today.  And we see that just as in Cady Stanton’s day, religion, specifically Christianity, the church, is perpetuating the subjugation of women.  As a Black colleague told me recently, different means less than.  Separate is not equal.  And our society has created a zone for women that is separate from men. Women are not equal to men in society at large.  Pay is not equal.  Power is not equal.  It’s extremely evident in the actions around reproductive healthcare.  There’s no movement restricting access to viagra even though it may be contributing to unwanted pregnancies.  No, we are not living in a context of gender equality.

Have things gotten better for women?  Yes.  Is there gender equality.  No.  Is the church and Christianity part of perpetuating the inequality.  Yes.  When you have the largest Christian communion in the world not ordaining women, there’s still a problem.  

And scholars have helped us to see that this situation is in large measure related to imagery and language for God.  When God is predominantly imaged in male terms – lord, father, he –  then male becomes equated with God.  God as Father.  Father as God.  You can see how this works.  And feminist scholar Christine Downing observes,  “. . .To be fed only male images of the divine is to be badly malnourished.”  [Mary Grey, Introducing Feminist Images of God, p. 31.]

I was in a clergy group recently and all those present were women.  At one point, one colleague blurted out, “We’ve had a male God for 6,000 years.  I want a female God for 6,000 years and then let’s see where we are.”  

In my own thinking, I would like to see the church pass on anthropomorphism for God all together.  No male.  No female.  No mother.  No father.  No Lord.  No Lady.  No him and he.  No her and she.  They, if you must.  But we still have this masculine heritage to deal with.  We still have the Bible.  And it may take the using of feminine imagery to balance the masculine imagery to get us to a place that is reflective of the witness of Jesus –  freedom and equality.  

Yes, the Bible has much masculine imagery for God.  But as we heard this morning, there is also feminine imagery for God.  And actually quite a bit of it.  Especially in the Hebrew Bible.  There are numerous images of God as a nursing mother.   About God doing what is conventionally considered women’s work – feeding, nurturing, comforting.  And there are examples in the New Testament as well, like the one we heard this morning in which Jesus is imaged as a mother hen protecting her chicks.  And there are feminine images of God doing things like baking and sweeping.  So our tradition gives us material to work with, but as a patriarchal culture the church has chosen to focus mainly on the masculine.

Is God male?  Is God female?  Of course, God is neither.  Or God is both.  Or God is more than either one.  God is mystery.  God is beyond our comprehension and categories.  In the Gospel of John, we are told, God is Spirit.  Yes, we can affirm all of this intellectually.  But hearing the word God associated with masculinity has an impact and we see that impact in the church and the world in the inequality of women.  Catholic theologian Elizabeth Johnson exposes our biases when she observes:  “If it is not meant that God is male when masculine imagery is used, why the objection when female images are introduced?”  [Elizabeth Johnson, She Who Is: The Mystery of God in Feminist Theological Discourse, p. 34.]

I would have been the first to say calling God ‘father’ and ‘he’ doesn’t really matter.  But then I went to college.  A women’s college.  Where everything was she, her, and women.  Hearing that continuously, seeing it continuously, and finding it so jarring made me realize how conditioned I was to a man’s world.  He. Him.  Man.  Even mankind.  Of course that includes women, we’re told.  Uh, no, it doesn’t.  And thankfully things are getting better.  People are actually getting to choose their own pronouns – well in some contexts, though not in the public schools in Florida.  

Thorny as this is, the way to the beloved community that we see in the ministry of Jesus, the will of God for humanity and Creation, on Earth as it is in Heaven, involves dealing with male imagery for God which undergirds patriarchy and oppression.  The way to equality, to each and every person a child of God, to true freedom, must include addressing the impact of male imagery and terminology for God.  We can’t get to Jesus’ vision of the beloved community as long as patriarchy is undergirded by male imagery and language for God.  

This Mother’s Day what do we want for Mother’s?  We want a world where children are safe.  Where there is affordable, accessible health care of all kinds, including reproductive health care.  We want high quality child care and education for all children.  We want healthy food and safe homes for all kids.  We want equal opportunity for all mothers so they can support their families.  We want family leave and personal time off so that mothers can care for their children, and when needed, aging parents.  We want access to the arts and recreation for all children.  We want a world where women are paid a living wage, equitable to men.  To create a society more supportive of mothers and more child friendly, we need to have gender equality.  And the concept of a male God remains an obstacle to gender equality today just as it did in Cady Stanton’s day.  The Woman’s Bible is still needed.  

Elizabeth Cady Stanton saw the potential for good in the Bible and religion but also saw the harm that they were doing not just to women but to society as a whole.  She was insightful and saw what we would call the intersectionality of oppression.  In testimony to the Judiciary Committee of the Senate of New York about the need for property rights for married women in 1860, Cady Stanton stated:  “The prejudice against color, of which we hear so much, is no stronger than that against sex. It is produced by the same cause, and manifested very much in the same way. The negro’s skin and the woman’s sex are both prima facie evidence that they were intended to be in subjection to the white Saxon man.”  [Elizabeth Cady Stanton, Wikipedia]

This Mother’s Day, we celebrate the freedom and well-being that all mother’s want for their children.  And we know that can happen only in a world in which women are also free.  We are inspired to pursue the well-being of all by the gospel, the liberating word of Jesus, who calls us to transform our reality into the reality of God freeing ourselves from all systems and dynamics that oppress and make people less than.  

Cady Stanton did not give up on religion.  She saw it’s potential power as a positive influence on society as we do.  She declared:

“All these old ideas should be relegated to the ancient mythologies as mere allegories, having no application whatever to the womanhood of this generation.  Everything points to a purer and more rational religion in the future, in which woman, as mother of the race will be recognized as an equal in both Church and the State.” [Elizabeth Johnson, She Who Is: The Mystery of God in Feminist Theological Discourse, p. 60.]

This Mother’s Day may we recommit ourselves to that purer religion that promotes equality for all people and protects the life of our Mother Earth.  Amen.

A reasonable effort has been made to appropriately cite materials referenced in this sermon. For additional information, please contact Lakewood United Church of Christ.